Thursday, December 25, 2014

Again, it's been a long time. I can't believe how fast the time goes and that I only have 2 months until the sprog is born!!

I had another ultrasound, technology is crazy, I can't believe how much detail there is. The baby has pretty big feet already!

 
In the past few months, we have been getting things ready for the baby's room.
 


 
We celebrated Halloween at school
 
 
My friend got married
 
 
And of course it's Christmas!!
 





Saturday, September 20, 2014

Well it's been a while.

We've been back from the UK for about 2 weeks now and settling back into work and the norm again.

However we did loots of things when we were in the UK.

We went to Dublin where Fabio finally got to go to his Mecca... the Guinness Factory

Met up with Louise and Claire who I haven't seen since I was in South Korea nearly 5 years ago

 I went to Cambridge for a few days for a Conference, ate lots of nice food, and went punting

We celebrated our first wedding anniversary
 
Celebrated Fabio's Birthday



Went to the moonlight flicks in Frodsham park and got soaked in the torrential rain!

Unfortunately my Grandma died but at least we got the chance to see her again and tell her our news. It also meant I was able to meet up with the whole family.

We told everyone our news... that I'm pregnant and I was able to get my first scan

Got a second opinion on my arm (They pretty much said the same at the doctors in Brazil - phew!)

So now it's back in Brazil trying to start organising things for when the baby (boy!!) comes in March!

Oh and huge news, which I nearly forgot, after being threatened with a huge fine as I had "overstayed my tourist visa" (read some idiot had forgot to change my status when I applied for my visa, meaning I had to pay £250 for someone else's mistake) I had no problems coming back and no mention of a fine at all!! Then when we went to our local Federal Police to figure out what had happened, we found out my visa has been approved!!! Only taken about a year!!

Friday, June 20, 2014

One Year since I moved to Brazil!

How time flies, it's been one year since I moved to Brazil.

In that year I:

Got married


Sgned a contract to rent an apartment for the first time ever, as opposed to sleeping on sofas and crashing at friend's houses

Made Christmas dinner in 25c heat for 9 people



Got shot!

Started a new position supervising and training teachers


Became a godmother

Let's hope the next year is a little less eventful!!!

Saturday, May 03, 2014

The past few weeks have been 2 or 3 days weeks because of Easter and Labour day holidays in Brazil.

Over Easter we took a day trip to Rio Negrinho and Campo Alegre.
 

 
There was a Beer and Burger festival at the Public Market.
 
 
I thought Friday was going to be a super exciting day as I had what I thought would be my final hospital appointment and get to take my cast off. I arrived really early (6:15am) and there was nobody else queuing which was unusual, I checked the date on the my appointment card but it was for the 2nd. A few other people also turned up, turned out though that the hospital was closed and they had forgotten and made some appointments anyway. I was sooooo ANGRY! Now I need to call back on Monday and they probably won't have any free appointments for a month. Sigh.

Sunday, February 23, 2014

Well the past month has been crazy... not as oh I've been busy but as in I've felt like I was living in a novella/soap opera. 

It will have been a month tomorrow since I was shot.

We had spent the day at the pool and some friends were dropping us off back home. We were all outside the car say goodbye to each other when two guys came running over. Me being the naïve gringa thought they needed help.. then I saw the gun. The next part was all a bit confusing. They were shouting at us to run away, obviously I didn't understand what they were saying. I also had my bag so hesitated as I thought they wanted that as well. I think they shot to scare us into running, which by that point I was. They took the car and I looked at my arm and saw a tiny bit of blood. I thought I had just been grazed but then my arm felt really heavy and I shouted I think I've been shot.  At this point, we were trying to get anyone's attention to call the police as we didn't think we had any phones. Fortunately some neighbours heard and came out to help.

There's a CCTV that some kind person (sarcastic tone) released to the press here of part of what happened.

About 3 police cars arrived straight away but it took about 15 minutes for the ambulance to arrive.
The main things I remember from the ambulance were; I am never having kids if giving birth is worse than this pain, I hope no one puts anything on Facebook and my family finds out on Facebook, how do Brazilian hospitals work, am I going to have to pay for all this and I need to work on my Portuguese asap!!

I got to the hospital and immediately understood why Brazilians are protesting about all the money being spent on the world cup and not on health and education.

I was given some painkillers, then taken to another room where I waited, then a nurse, well mainly Fabio put a HUMONGOUS cast on my arm. Then I waited for my x-rays, which I found out a day later were taken incorrectly. The bullet had basically broken the bone in my arm and at this point they weren't sure if I need surgery to remove the bullet.

I was then wheeled into a corridor with about 30 other people, where I stayed for the next 3 days.


The nurses were amazing considering the conditions (They actually went on strike a few days later, have a look here.) and amount of patients they had. I then found out after my friend harassing everyone that my x-rays weren't clear enough and had to have them taken again. This was on Monday night, bearing in mind I had been admitted at 11pm on Saturday night.

I finally saw a doctor at 6.30am on Tuesday morning, he wouldn't let me wake Fabio up to make sure I understood everything but basically said  he had to analyse the new x-rays to see if I needed surgery or not. We waited for him to come back but I never saw him again.
 
 
 We were still waiting on Wednesday to find out what was going on but kept being told that my doctor was in surgery ... for the past 3 days...

Fabio went to buy me a proper support sling as the cast was so heavy that the sling the hospital had given me hurt my arm. On his way back a nurse saw him and said he would get a doctor to help me fit it. By some sheer stroke of luck, it turned out to be my doctor who then discharged me. 3 days after I had been admitted, having sat and taken up space in an over crowded hospital in exactly the same condition and cast I'd been in since 1.30am on Sunday morning.

During this time we were visited by the police, shown photos and they actually caught the guys on the Monday in the middle of another robbery.

We also went to pick up my x-rays, but they were at a different hospital, then they couldn't find them. But we finally got them.

I had another appointment at the hospital booked for 2 weeks time. During this time Brazil had a day that was recorded as the hottest day in the world that day, not fun with this badly put-on massive cast!!

Humongous heavy cast :(
The cast had been rubbing under my arm and got infected because I was sweating so much. We had looked into private healthcare but it was R$300 for a consultation and R$150 to redo the cast, so we were holding out for the public hospital, if they didn't change it, we were going to go private. When we went back to the hospital we had been booked with a hand doctor fortunately he said he would see me as otherwise I was about to start crying. I finally got the taken off, after all the nurses had  gawped and sighed at the old cast. The doctor actually redid my cast and made sure it was much thinner than the old one.
The bullet wound!! You can't even see anything!!


The infection was worse than the bullet wound!!

New, none smelly thinner cast!
The doctor told me I would be in a cast for the next 3 months. I wasn't very happy about this as another 3 months of Fabio doing my hair/everything wasn't a great thought.

But I was extremely lucky, the bullet didn't hit any nerves, so I can move my hand. The gun was an old gun, so it didn't ricochet, as it could have got my heart. I have flabby bingo wings which helped slow down the bullet but missed my arteries. So now I am a gansta with a bullet in my arm, as it is safer to leave it in. I also have a letter for when I go through airport security, in case I set the alarms off!!!

Fabio has been amazing throughout this whole process and continues to be so. He has gone above and beyond the normal husband duties and I don't know what I would have done without him.

The positives of this is that our relationship is now even stronger and it also put me on the police's radar! We had the Federal Police turn up at the apartment to check that we are a real couple for my visa. They wanted to see our bedroom and inside our wardrobe!!! So that should be all sorted in 6 months time... or so they say...

Also, on a happier note, today is our 6 month anniversary!!

Wednesday, January 01, 2014

Christmas Period

It started off with Secret Haviana Santa with work

Then a trip to Campo Alegre

Christmas celebrations on the 24th (as is typical in Brazil)

My first attempt at cooking a large scale Christmas dinner on Christmas day

Hanging out in the pool at friends on Christmas day

Celebrating new year in 40 degree heat